Now I have probably kept quiet for too long….
Start by telling you that I created a website with Blandi's Photo and some history 2013-2019.
I have in 4-6 years have been subjected to slander by some who think it is “skitkul” to lower people. They probably thought I was easy going. 75-year old and with medical history. I must admit that I have some time felt a little hopeless and probably I wanted to “throw in the towel” more than once, but with the stubbornness I have gained in life, I have tried to wait out and see a stop, which does not seem to come.
The group has started with me as the main character, where it is said about what a horrible person I am and people can think and believe what they want about it, but it is okay to write to me and ask about my life with my words, I probably think I'm the one who can answer most things in my own life. vivian@loften.se
One part of this is that because I do not understand the purpose of this “persecution”, so I have enjoyed reading a bit about psychopathy and sociopathy and come to my own conclusion that these people, who can not yet leave me alone, leads to a personality disorder In Wikipedia you can read what follows, which I personally agree with these people and give myself some understanding of the protracted process.
“The twenty question areas in Hare's psychopathy criteria …. Link to Wikipedia
When using Hare's list of criteria for psychopathy, the patient or criminal is assigned 1 points for the traits that correspond well with the personality and 2 points for those who match very well. The sum of these points can be the most 40. The limit for psychopathy is at a total score of 30 or more.
- Speech / superficial charming
- Elevatedself-perception/terrific
- Need for excitement / gets easily bored
- Pathologicallying
- Fraudulent / manipulative
- Missingregret ochfeelings of guilt
- Flackt, shallowemotional life
- Cold / lackingempathic ability
- Parasitic lifestyle
- Lack of self-control, for example, easily arousedaggressiveness
- Promiskuöst and selfishsexualliv
- Early behavioral problems (before 12 års ålder)
- Lacks realistic, longterm goals; acts short-term and can not plan for the long term
- Impulsive
- Irresponsibility, for example as a parent or manager
- Does not take responsibility for their actions
- Many short-term marital relationships
- Juvenile delinquency (before 15 års ålder)
- Violation of conditional release / discharge, commits, for example, new criminal acts during leave
- Criminal versatility, several types of offenses among the following 10: burglary, robbery, drug crime, illegal restraint, murder / attempted murder, illegal possession of weapons, sexual offenses, gross negligence, fraud, escape from a prison (is not a crime in itself)
Behavior
Robert D. Hare describes psychopaths as “humanpredator who uses charm, manipulation, provocation andviolence to control others and satisfy their own selfish needs. With a lack ofconscience and compassion for others, they take in cold blood what they want and do as they please, and violates socialnorms and expectations without the slightest hint ofdebt- ellerfeelings of remorse“.
The character of the psychopath is generally verymanipulative. The psychopaths who can not cope with their personality disorder can be very dangerous to their fellow human beings andsociety. Some psychopaths may be able to follow in working lifenorms, rules andlaws, at least on a superficial level. Often, however, psychopathic personality disorder is associated with abnormality, inability to maintain employment and involvement in workplace conflicts.Abuse ochcriminality is usual, this is partly due to the fact that one of the dominant features of a psychopath islack of impulse control.
Family life can be an established disaster with partners who have fallen for the charm, wrote all his possessions on the great charmer and lives more or less in daily fear of new threats or violence. The state of psychopathy is present in all social groups – even in the upper strata of society. A Swedish documentary about psychopaths in working life came to light “Some psychopaths become extremely successful managers or business leaders. With charm, karisma, coldness and a manipulative ability they emerge in most situations.”[5]